Cornerstone — Edition 06
The Financial Decisions That Protect the People Who Depend on You
The moment a child arrives, the financial stakes change permanently. Before children, the consequences of financial inaction fall primarily on you. After children, they fall on people who had no say in the matter and cannot protect themselves.
This changes the urgency, the sequencing, and the moral weight of every financial decision you make.
This edition is not about investment returns or retirement optimisation. It is about the protective layer that every family needs beneath everything else — the cover, the plan, and the documents that ensure your family is financially intact, no matter what happens to you.
Life cover is the most widely held financial product in South Africa, and the most widely underestimated. Most people have some life cover. Very few have enough.
The correct framework for calculating the right amount is not a salary multiple — it is a needs analysis. What would your family need to maintain its lifestyle if your income disappeared permanently?
The calculation typically includes:
Income replacement for 10 to 15 years
Settlement of all debt including the home loan
A capital sum for education for each child
Immediate expenses including estate costs and the period before the estate is wound up
For a family with a R2 million bond, two children, and a spouse who earns less than the primary breadwinner, a life cover amount of R5 million to R8 million is often appropriate — materially more than the one or two times salary that employer group cover typically provides. Have this reviewed by an adviser using your actual numbers, not an online calculator that doesn’t know your liabilities.
One critical point that is frequently overlooked: both parents need cover, not just the primary earner. The financial cost of losing a stay-at-home or lower-earning parent — childcare, school transport, household management — is substantial and often unplanned for.
Medical aid becomes more complex and more consequential when children enter the picture. Three things to address with your current plan:
Education inflation in South Africa has averaged 9–10% per year for the past decade. The implication is straightforward: education is an investment with a known cost and a known timeline. The sooner you start, the more of that cost is funded by investment returns rather than contributions.
School fees are a near-term budgeting decision — choose a school within your means and treat it as a fixed monthly cost. University is the longer-term problem, and it’s the one worth actively investing for, because the numbers below get worse the longer you wait.
A four-year degree at UCT currently costs between R290,000 and R450,000. At a 9.5% annual inflation rate — the midpoint of the range above — that cost becomes approximately R720,000 to R1.12 million in 10 years, and R1.78 million to R2.77 million in 20 years. At a private institution, those numbers are materially higher.
A parent who contributes R3,000 per month to a TFSA opened in their child’s own name from the month the child is born reaches the R500,000 lifetime contribution limit by around age 14 — at which point tax free contributions stop. Left invested and untouched, that account has the potential to grow to approximately R1.5 million by the time the child turns 18 — without paying a rand of tax on the growth. An adviser can help structure the contribution schedule to make the most of both the annual and lifetime limits.
Worth factoring in: fewer children today are financially independent at 18. Between longer periods of study, competitive graduate job markets, and the cost of establishing an independent household, many parents find their financial support extends well into a child’s twenties — which makes it worth planning for a fund that lasts longer than the school years alone.
The Tax-Free Savings Account, opened in your child’s own name, is the cleanest vehicle for education savings: no tax on growth, no restrictions on use, fully flexible. R46,000 per year, R500,000 lifetime limit. Once you’re comfortable with the amount built up there, further contributions can move into a discretionary unit trust instead — growth in a unit trust is subject to capital gains tax on withdrawal, so the trade-off is worth weighing against how much of your child’s own future TFSA capacity you want to use now. An adviser can help you find the right balance.
Education endowment policies — frequently sold to new parents — should be approached with caution. High fees, limited flexibility, and surrender penalties can make them materially less effective than a low-cost TFSA with a well-chosen unit trust. Before signing any education policy, compare the projected outcome against a fee-transparent TFSA with an equivalent contribution. The comparison is often illuminating.
A Will is always important. For parents of minor children, it is not optional.
Without a Will, there is no legal mechanism to name a guardian for your children. The courts determine guardianship — applying their own assessment of the best interest of the child, without knowing your wishes. This process can be contested, protracted, and deeply distressing for an already grieving family.
A Will allows you to:
If you have children and do not have a valid Will, drafting one is the single most important financial task on this list.
For a family, income protection is not personal — it is structural. If the primary earner loses their income due to illness or injury for six months, a year, or longer, the family’s entire financial position is at risk: the bond, the school fees, the medical aid, the retirement contributions. Life cover doesn’t help here. Disability cover may not be triggered. Income protection — a monthly benefit paid for the duration of the incapacity — is the only product designed specifically for this scenario.
The most important thing to understand about income protection for parents is that the appropriate benefit amount is higher than for a childless professional. The obligations are higher — school fees, additional dependants, potentially a bond — and the margin between income and essential expenses is often thinner.
Review your benefit level alongside your life cover, not separately from it.
Most of what’s covered above happens gradually, over years. But there is a short list of things worth actioning in the first few months after a child arrives — before life gets busier and the list gets forgotten.
Tick off what you’ve already done. For anything still unchecked, feel free to come speak to us.
None of these items are individually complicated. Collectively, they are the difference between a family that is protected and one that assumes it is.
The one question to sit with
If you were unable to work for 12 months starting tomorrow, would your family’s life be financially intact at the end of those 12 months? Not comfortable — intact. Same home, same school, same medical aid, no new debt. If the answer is no, identify the specific gap and close it.
Worth reading
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A thoughtful, practical guide to raising children who understand money — how to talk about it, how to teach it, and how to build the habits that last. For parents who want their children to be as financially literate as they hope to become themselves.